Before I met my husband, he had a daughter that was six months old wit his first wife. We have been married for 4 years and also had a son two years ago. My husband committed suicide a year ago. The reasons still unknown but that is just something I will have to live with.
A few months ago, I found out that my husband is not the biological father of his daughter from his first marriage. He did not know that. I met up with his ex-wife to discuss something about the kids, when she told me. She said that she could not find it in her heart to tell him because the daughter’s real dad, is a druggie and she did not want that for her daughter. SO instead, she lied to everyone instead!! My husband died thinking he was the father.
I am not sure how to feel about this! On the one side I feel that she has done the right thing for the sake of her daughter. I could see myself doing that too if needed be. But on the other side, I feel that she has betrayed all of us!!
How am I suppose to deal with this?