Home Forums Parenting What type of parent are you?

Tagged: ,

This topic contains 0 replies, has 1 voice, and was last updated by  Admin 8 years, 3 months ago.

  • Author
    Posts
  • #706

    Admin
    Keymaster

    Jot your answers down on a piece of paper!

    1. A neighbor comes to visit, but your five-year-old son hides behind you. You would:
    a) Scold him for being shy and make him say hello.
    b) Ignore his shyness and let him gradually overcome it as he gets older.
    c) Apologize for his shyness and explain that he is just little.
    d) Ignore his shyness, but show pleasure any time he interacts with your neighbor.

    2. Your ten-year-old daughter comes to breakfast late and in her pajamas. It is now too late for her to dress, eat, and make it to school on time. You would:
    a) Scold her for being late and restrict her evening activities.
    b) Let her go to school late, and let her deal with her teacher herself.
    c) Dress her while she eats and get her to school on time.
    d) Give her a choice of either dressing at home or eating in the car, or eating at home and dressing in the car. But you let her decide.

    3. Your son gets a D on his report cart and feels discouraged. You would:
    a) Take away T.V. until he improves his grade.
    b) Say nothing since his other marks are good.
    c) Console him by fixing his favorite meal.
    d) Tell him that you know he feels sad, but he did well in his other subjects and you appreciate his efforts.

    4. Your overweight daughter tells you boys never call her and she has no date for the school dance. You would:
    a) Tell her boys would probably call her if she wasn’t overweight, and then restrict her diet.
    b) Tell her not to worry because she will find another boy some day.
    c) Tell her no matter what others think you will always love her, and others will love her too.
    d) Empathize with her concerns, but remind her she may have to choose between being popular and satisfying her craving for sweets.

    5. Your daughter tells you her little brother cheated her in a game. You would:
    a) Scold your son for cheating and temporarily remove one of his toys.
    b) Tell her not to get upset because he is only little.
    c) Play with her yourself for a while and tell her you are proud of her for not cheating.
    d) Tell her you know it is not fun to feel cheated, but you’re confident she can work it out with her brother.

    6. Your son tracks mud on your clean kitchen floor. You would:
    a) Scold him and make him clean it up.
    b) Ignore it because it was an accident.
    c) Clean it up for him since boys will be boys.
    d) Tell him you are annoyed, and he can either clean his muddy shoes when he comes in, or not wear them in the house. You then discuss cleaning the floor.

    7. Your son promised to come home on time for dinner, but arrives an hour late. You would:
    a) Punish him by depriving him of dinner.
    b) Say nothing since he is now safely home.
    c) Tell him you were worried about him.
    d) Tell him how you feel when he doesn’t keep his word, then let him eat the cold leftovers.

    8. Your six year old daughter refuses to eat her dinner. You would:
    a) Insist she eat before letting her leave the table.
    b) Disregard it and let her skip dinner.
    c) Tell her how important it is for her to eat good food.
    d) Feed her something else nutritious that she likes.

    9. Your nine year old son comes to the dinner table dirty. You would:
    a) Tell him he is filthy, and then make him wash.
    b) Let him eat that way since boys always get dirty.
    c) Get the wash cloth for him and help him wash.
    d) Remind him of the family rule that people who wish to eat here must be clean then remove his plate until he has washed.

    10. Your twelve-year-old daughter refuses to set the table before dinner as she agreed. You would:
    a) Make her set the table then restrict her TV that night.
    b) Forget about it since no child is perfect, and remind yourself that she will set it when she has her own place..
    c) Set the table for her, but remind her how much you appreciate it when she does.
    d) Delay dinner until her chore is complete. If she still refuses, go out to dinner with your spouse.

    Answers

    Go through your answers and write down the counts of all the a,b,c and d answers. Whichever letter has the highest count, will indicate what type of parent you may be.

    In general, there are four broad styles of parenting which we will label: a) Firm, b) Relaxed, c) Nurturing, and d) Flexible.

    a) FIRM. The firm style is characterized by strong parental control and is often utilized by people who like to be in be in command. These parents expect their children to respect them and to do what they are told with little explanations and no argument. The emphasis here is on proper behavior. The advantage of this mode, when successful, is that parents get well-behaved children that make them feel proud. In addition, they do not have to put up with back talk. The children get clear and consistent guidelines for conduct.

    b) RELAXED. The relaxed style is characterized by an easygoing attitude toward the children. These parents respect their children’s ability to master their own problems and allow them to develop at their own pace. In these families, children seldom feel controlled, pressured, or guilty. Because they are permitted more time to explore, experiment, and play the children develop a greater capacity for creative behavior. The advantage of this style, when it works, is that the home atmosphere is more fun-loving and relaxed, and members feel friendlier to each other

    c) NURTURING. The Nurturing style is parenting in its most maternal form. Here children are given an abundance of love and affection with little, other than love, expected in return. With this style, children clearly feel protected and cared about. The advantage is that both parents and children get to experience close and affectionate love bonds. And children, because they are loved without demands or conditions, feel inherently valuable and important. This style does the most toward building self-esteem in children.

    d) FLEXIBLE. The flexible style is usually seen in the families of happy children. This mode consists of a combination of the Firm, Relaxed, and Nurturing styles utilized somewhat evenly and usually in a democratic fashion. The flexible style tends not to go to extremes in any mode. It is characterized by fairness, mutual respect, and openness to ideas from all family members. The natural consequences of one’s behavior are usually stressed as the reason for making choices. Family rules are developed thorough discussion whenever possible. Although there are limits on what behavior is acceptable, and parents do have the ultimate say, nevertheless these parents do listen to their children and, within reason, try to meet their needs. Flexible parents endeavour to avoid strongly imposing their authority on their children. But when they do, because it is so infrequent, their children more readily comply.

    The disadvantage of the Flexible manner of parenting is that it takes time, patience, and the willingness to attend to childhood needs. Also, since the flexible parent has no single mode or guiding principle to follow, and since individual situations frequently differ, decisions about how to respond must often be made. This can produce feelings of uncertainty. However since these parents are not stuck with any one style of response to family situations, they can react more rationally and be guided by the demands of the circumstance.

You must be logged in to reply to this topic.

100 thoughts on “What type of parent are you?

  1. Pingback: canadian pharmacycanadian pharmacy

  2. Pingback: canada drug

  3. Pingback: https://site656670376.fo.team/

  4. Pingback: site561571227.fo.team

  5. Pingback: https://site102906154.fo.team/

  6. Pingback: hekluy.ucraft.site

  7. Pingback: kawsear.fwscheckout.com

  8. Pingback: madridbet

  9. Pingback: meritroyalbet

  10. Pingback: canadian pharmacys

  11. Pingback: meritroyalbet

  12. Pingback: https://uertbx.livejournal.com/402.html

  13. Pingback: eurocasino

  14. Pingback: canadian online pharmacies

  15. Pingback: https://avuiom.sellfy.store/

  16. Pingback: pharmacies.bigcartel.com

  17. Pingback: https://kwersd.mystrikingly.com/

  18. Pingback: canadian pharcharmy online

  19. Pingback: kqwsh.wordpress.com20220516what-everybody-else-does-when-it-comes-to-online-pharmacies

  20. Pingback: site592154748.fo.team

  21. Pingback: http://aonubs.website2.me/

  22. Pingback: dkyubn.bizwebs.com

  23. Pingback: asebg.bigcartel.comcanadian-pharmacy

  24. Pingback: medicine-online.estranky.skclankyunderstand-covid-19-and-know-the-tricks-to-avoid-it-from-spreading-----medical-services.html

  25. Pingback: https://kertvbs.webgarden.com/

  26. Pingback: disvaiza.mystrikingly.com

  27. Pingback: trust pharmacy canada

  28. Pingback: kewburet.wordpress.com20220427how-to-keep-your-workers-healthy-during-covid-19-health-regulations

  29. Pingback: online pharmacies canada

  30. Pingback: highest rated canadian pharmacies

  31. Pingback: meritroyalbet

  32. Pingback: https://canadian-pharmaceutical.webflow.io/

  33. Pingback: http://pamelaliggins.website2.me/

  34. Pingback: canadian mail order pharmacies

  35. Pingback: https://hub.docker.com/r/gserv/pharmacies

  36. Pingback: canadian pharmacy world

  37. Pingback: kedmnx.estranky.skclankyonline-medicine-tablets-shopping-the-best-manner.html

  38. Pingback: canadianpharmacy

  39. Pingback: https://ksorvb.estranky.sk/clanky/why-online-pharmacies-is-good-friend-to-small-business.html

  40. Pingback: canada rx

  41. Pingback: kwervb.estranky.czclankycanadian-government-approved-pharmacies.html

  42. Pingback: bahis siteleri

  43. Pingback: Northwest Pharmacy

  44. Pingback: canada drugs

  45. Pingback: 3bastion

  46. Pingback: 1combining

  47. Pingback: https://site955305180.fo.team/

  48. Pingback: http://site841934642.fo.team/

  49. Pingback: https://62b2f636ecec4.site123.me/blog/canadian-pharmaceuticals-online

  50. Pingback: 62b2ffff12831.site123.meblogcanadian-pharmaceuticals-for-usa-sales

Comments are closed.